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Vishal Khandelwal

Ambition vs Contentment

Question: I want to achieve big things, but I also want to enjoy the present moment. How do you balance striving for more with appreciating what you have?

Response:
This is a question I’ve wrestled with for years. I’ve always been ambitious, always reaching for the next goal. But there were moments when I achieved something big and felt… nothing. It was like I was so focused on the next summit, I forgot to enjoy the climb.

What I’ve come to realize is that ambition and contentment aren’t opposites. They can coexist, but only if you let them. Contentment doesn’t mean settling; it means appreciating where you are while still dreaming of where you want to go.

One practice that’s helped me is gratitude. Not the Instagram-worthy kind, but the quiet, personal kind—writing down three things I’m grateful for every day, no matter how small. Gratitude grounds you in the present while still allowing you to dream.

I also remind myself of something I once heard: “You can be happy with a full cup and still have room for more.” The key is not letting your ambition rob you of the joy of what you already have.

Overcoming the Voice of Self-Doubt

Question: I constantly doubt myself, even when I know I’m capable. How do you quiet that inner critic and trust yourself?

Response:
Oh, self-doubt—my old friend. I wish I could say I’ve silenced that voice for good, but the truth is, it still visits me. The difference now is, I’ve learned not to give it the final word.

Self-doubt is sneaky because it sounds like it’s trying to protect you: “What if you fail? What if you’re not good enough?” But the more I’ve examined it, the more I’ve realized self-doubt is less about protecting you and more about keeping you small.

One thing that’s helped me is reframing self-doubt as curiosity. Instead of letting it stop me, I ask myself, “What if it’s wrong? What if I can do this?” That little shift turns doubt from a roadblock into a question I can explore.

Another thing I’ve learned is to separate my worth from my performance. You are not your success or failure. You are enough, even on your worst days. It sounds cheesy, I know, but sometimes the truth is.

Finally, I remind myself that everyone—even the people I admire—struggles with self-doubt. The difference is, they act anyway.

Courage, they say, isn’t the absence of doubt; it’s moving forward despite it.

Reigniting Your Spark in Life’s Monotony

Question: Sometimes life feels like I’m just going through the motions—work, eat, sleep, repeat. How do you stay motivated when it feels like nothing exciting is happening?

Response:
Monotony is a sneaky thief. It creeps in quietly and steals the spark from your days before you even realize it. I’ve been there too—stuck in the rhythm of routine, wondering, “Is this it?”

What’s helped me is shifting my focus from grand, life-changing events to the small, almost invisible moments that make life meaningful.

We often think motivation has to come from big goals or dramatic changes. But sometimes, it’s about finding joy in the mundane—like the taste of your morning coffee, the sound of rain, or even the quiet satisfaction of finishing a book.

Philosophers like Søren Kierkegaard believed in the idea of living life as an “art of repetition.” Even in the monotony, there’s beauty if we look for it.

Life isn’t always exciting, but it doesn’t have to be dull either. The trick is to slow down enough to notice the magic hidden in the ordinary.

The Messy, Beautiful Journey of Forgiveness

Question: I’ve been struggling to forgive someone who betrayed me. I want to move on, but the anger and hurt keep pulling me back. How do you truly forgive?

Response:
Forgiveness is one of the hardest things to grapple with. People talk about it like it’s flipping a switch—decide to forgive, and poof, the pain is gone. But in my experience, it’s rarely that clean or easy. Forgiveness is messy, awkward, and sometimes painfully slow.

For me, forgiveness starts with admitting the hurt. That might sound obvious, but it’s surprising how often we try to gloss over our pain to seem strong or “above it.” But you can’t forgive what you haven’t fully felt.

Acknowledge the wound—how it hurt, why it hurt—and give yourself permission to sit with it.

The philosopher Desmond Tutu once said, “Forgiveness is not forgetting; it’s remembering and choosing not to seek revenge.” That thought changes something within you, doesn’t it?

Forgiveness isn’t about excusing the behaviour or pretending it doesn’t matter. It is about freeing yourself from the weight of anger and resentment.

Forgiving doesn’t mean you have to rebuild the relationship. It’s an internal process, not necessarily a reconciliation. And it takes time. I’ve had situations where forgiveness took years. Some days, I’d think I was over it, and the next, I’d be consumed by rage again. That’s normal. Forgiveness is a process, not a destination.

The truth is, forgiveness is as much for you as it is for the other person. It’s about reclaiming your peace, even if the wound doesn’t fully heal.

Letting Go of Dreams That No Longer Serve You

Question: I’ve been holding onto a dream for years, but it feels like it’s slipping further away. How do you know when to keep going and when to let go?

Response:
This is such a tough one because dreams feel so personal. Letting go of one can feel like letting go of a part of yourself. I’ve wrestled with this question more times than I can count.

Here’s what I’ve come to believe: Dreams evolve, just like we do. The dream you had five years ago may not fit the person you are today—and that’s okay. Letting go isn’t about giving up; it’s about making space for what’s next.

Letting go doesn’t mean you stop dreaming. It means you trust that life has more in store for you. And it does.

The Balance Between Growth and Burnout

Question: I love learning and growing, but sometimes I feel like I’m putting too much pressure on myself. How do you find a balance?

Response:
Oh, I’ve been there. When you’re someone who loves growth, it’s easy to turn it into a never-ending to-do list. Read this book, adopt that habit, fix this flaw. It’s exhausting. And honestly, it’s not sustainable.

I used to think growth was about doing more—more learning, more achieving. But then I realized that growth isn’t about adding, but about becoming.

It’s less like building a skyscraper and more like tending a garden. Sometimes you plant seeds, sometimes you water them, and sometimes you just let the sun do its work.

One of the best pieces of advice I ever heard came from Lao Tzu: “Nature does not hurry, yet everything is accomplished.” When I feel like I’m burning out, I ask myself, “Am I growing in a way that feels natural, or am I forcing it?”

Burnout happens when you treat growth like a race. But life isn’t a race; it’s a rhythm. Some days you sprint, and some days you rest. And both are okay.

The key is to listen to what your body, mind, and soul need in the moment.

When Failure Feels Final: A Path Forward

Question: I’ve faced failure recently, and it feels like my entire identity is wrapped up in what I’ve lost. How do you move forward when failure seems so final?

Response:
Failure hurths. Let’s just get that out of the way. It’s heavy, humiliating, and—if you’re like me—it feels deeply personal. When I’ve failed, it wasn’t just a setback, but felt like I was the failure.

The hardest ‘failure’ I ever faced was tied to my career. I had built up this image of myself as someone who was going places. Then the financial crisis hit in 2008, and my carefully constructed plans came crashing down. For months, I kept replaying it in my head: What could I have done differently? What does this say about me?

The answer didn’t come overnight. But over time, I realized that failure isn’t the end of the road; it’s the beginning of a new one. It’s like that Rumi quote: “Try not to resist the changes that come your way. Instead, let life live through you.” Sometimes, the road you’re on isn’t the one you’re meant to stay on.

I started asking myself, “What can I learn from this?” At first, the answers were painful—lessons about humility, resilience, and letting go of control. But those lessons became the foundation for everything I’ve done since.

Failure strips away the inessential. It’s uncomfortable, but it forces you to ask, “Who am I without this success?” The answer is deeper than you think.

Finding Meaning in the Midst of Chaos

Question: I often feel like life is spinning out of control—work demands, personal responsibilities, and the state of the world. How do you find meaning and keep going when chaos surrounds you?

Response:
I wish I could tell you I’ve mastered this, that I wake up every morning with clarity and purpose, no matter how messy or difficult life gets. But, to be honest, there are days I feel lost too.

Chaos has a way of pulling the rug out from under us when we least expect it.

Anyway, here’s what I’ve learned: meaning isn’t something you find in perfect moments. It’s something you create, even in the messy ones.

A few years ago, I went through a particularly chaotic phase—work was overwhelming, my personal life felt scattered, and the news seemed to be a constant stream of bad headlines. I thought, “How can anyone make sense of this?”

But then, as I got deeper into studying about the human condition and spirituality (not religion, but spirituality), I started noticing the small things that grounded me. A kind word from my child, the rhythm of my breath when I took a walk, the earth under my feet, the way sunlight danced on my desk in the late afternoon. These weren’t grand revelations, but they started to feel enough.

Philosophers like Viktor Frankl have written about finding meaning in suffering, and that idea always stuck with me. It’s not about waiting for chaos to subside but about asking, “What is this moment asking of me? What can I give to it?”

Sometimes, meaning is as simple as showing up. You don’t have to solve everything; you just have to take the next step.

Life might never stop being chaotic, but you can always choose to live deliberately within it.

A Birthday Note: Announcing My New Book—Boundless

It’s my birthday today—I’ve completed 46 laps around the sun. And as I start my 47th year, here’s a fun fact I discovered: 47 is the atomic number of silver. So, I guess this will be my “Silver Year.” Not sure if that makes me more valuable—though at 46, I was a “Palladium”, which is more precious than silver and gold—or just a little tarnished, but it doesn’t matter!

But enough about silver (and aging). Today, I’m celebrating something much bigger than a birthday.

I’m excited to announce my new book, Boundless: Timeless Wisdom for a Life Without Limits (464-page hardcover book, illustrated, and written in English).


What Boundless Means to Me

This book started as a deeply personal project—just a collection of notes and thoughts I wanted to leave for my children, Kavya and Chaitanya. I wanted them to have something to hold onto as they walk on their own journeys of life, something that shares what I’ve learned (and unlearned) along the way.

But as I wrote, somewhere these notes took on a life of their own. They became lessons for anyone who has ever felt stuck, limited, or unsure of what comes next. They were for anyone looking to reconnect with the vast possibilities within themselves.

That’s why I called it Boundless.

This book is my attempt to explore what it means to live without limits—not in the sense of chasing endless ambition but in embracing curiosity, courage, and the freedom to be your truest self.


A Glimpse into Boundless

The book is organised into five sections:

  1. Self-Discovery: Finding who you are and the path you’re meant to walk.
  2. Overcoming Adversity: How to navigate life’s storms with grace (or at least try to).
  3. Mindful Living: Slowing down and noticing the small, beautiful things in life.
  4. Personal Growth: Growing not for the sake of achievement but for the joy of learning.
  5. Societal Virtues: How we can contribute to something bigger than ourselves.

These sections are made up of 52 chapters—as the number of weeks in a year—where I’ve drawn from thinkers who’ve deeply influenced me—Steve Jobs, Kahlil Gibran, Ramana Maharshi, Leo Tolstoy, Viktor Frankl, Lao Tzu, and many others—and added stories from my own life and other such reflections. Each chapter also has questions to guide your own thinking.

Boundless isn’t just about the words. It’s filled with illustrations I’ve drawn myself. Simple and imperfect as they may be, they are my way of bringing the ideas in the book to life, adding a little extra warmth and meaning to the pages. I hope these sketches make the journey through the book feel a bit more personal, like a conversation between us.

Overall, creating this book has been a labour of love. Like my first book—The Sketchbook of Wisdom—I chose to self-publish because it allows me to pour my heart into every detail. All I had as company along the way was the quiet satisfaction of crafting something meaningful.

My hope is that Boundless will be more than a book to you. I hope it feels like a friend—someone who’s there for you when things get tough and a reminder of why you keep going.


How Boundless is Different from The Sketchbook of Wisdom

Many of you have read my first book, The Sketchbook of Wisdom, and have shared how its timeless lessons resonated with you. It’s deeply humbling to know that it’s found a place in so many of your lives. As I now introduce Boundless, I want to quickly share how this new book is both a continuation of that journey and a departure into something deeper.

When I wrote The Sketchbook of Wisdom, I wanted to create something timeless—a collection of timeless ideas that anyone could pick up, flip through, and feel inspired.

Boundless, though, is a very different kind of book. It’s more personal, more reflective. It’s not just about what others have said but about what I’ve learned—through my own experiences, failures, and moments of clarity.

If The Sketchbook of Wisdom was a map of timeless truths, Boundless is the journey itself. It’s deeply personal, but I’ve written it for anyone who’s looking to embrace their unique path and live a life that feels limitless.

It’s not a replacement for The Sketchbook of Wisdom—it’s a companion, and I hope it finds a place in your life, too.


Early Praise for Boundless

I sent a reviewer’s copy of the book to a few people I admire, and here are some nice things they had to say:

Vishal blends philosophy, personal stories, and practical insights to help you transcend limitations and discover the extraordinary within yourself.

—Manish Chokhani, Director, Enam Holdings

A philosophical journey into our lives, our choices and their consequences.

—Monika Halan, Author, Let’s Talk Money

Boundless is a thought-provoking exploration that reshapes how we see the life we live. Prepare to be inspired, challenged, and utterly transformed by this literary masterpiece.

—Bogumil Baranowski, Founder, Blue Infinitas Capital

Joy to read, thought-provoking, and full of worldly wisdom.

—Barry Ritholtz, Chairman & CIO, Ritholtz Wealth Mgt.

Vishal distils timeless wisdom into a profound guide for living a meaningful life.

—Sankaran Naren, CIO, ICICI Prudential AMC

Boundless is a wonderful guide on how to live a more intentional life. If you want to make tangible changes and go on a journey of self-discovery, then Boundless is the book for you.

—Nick Maggiulli, Author, Just Keep Buying

Boundless is a call to break self-imposed limits and embrace life as an unfolding story.

—Radhika Gupta, MD & CEO, Edelweiss Mutual Fund


A Birthday Gift

Since it’s my birthday, I’d like to turn the tradition around and give you a gift—an invitation to pre-order Boundless. By pre-ordering, you’ll be among the first to receive the book when it starts shipping in January 2025.

Click here to pre-order Boundless now!

And because I want to make this special for those of you who’ve supported me all along, I’m offering a pre-order price of ₹1799 (base price: ₹1999). Pricing for international orders is $51 (base price: $55)

Also, as a token of my gratitude, all pre-orders will include a couple of special bonuses:

  • Free Workbook: A companion guide with reflection prompts and additional insights to help you live the ideas in Boundless.
  • Author Q&A: An invite to an online session where I’ll share behind-the-scenes stories and answer your questions (sometime in early January 2025).

Click here to pre-order Boundless now!

The pre-order bonuses are my way of saying thank you—because honestly, I wouldn’t be here without you.


Final Thoughts

Completing 46 has been humbling. There’s a lot I still don’t know. But one thing I’ve learned is this: Life isn’t about perfection or having all the answers, but is about finding the courage to keep growing—even when the silver starts showing.

Thank you for letting me share this journey with you. Whether you’ve read my words, shared your thoughts, or simply followed along, you’ve been an important part of my story.

Here’s to another year of learning, reflecting, and (hopefully) shining just a little brighter.

With gratitude,
—Vishal

P.S. They say silver tarnishes if you don’t take care of it. So here’s to polishing the best parts of ourselves and letting the rest fade with grace. Let’s live boundlessly together.

Click here to pre-order Boundless now!

The Investor’s Paradox: When to Act and When to Wait

Investing is like playing a game where the rules keep changing, and no one really knows what’s going to happen next. At the heart of this game are two big things: time and risk.

Time changes everything—it can make a risky investment safe or turn a sure thing into a disaster. And the way you handle time and risk will decide whether you win or lose.

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